Asking for me because I think my relationship is doomed. I used to feel butterflies and look forward to being with him, but now I am apprehensive of our future together. I am always feeling like I am in the wrong, can never get anything right or to his standards, walking on eggshells, and wondering when the next “what did I do now” moment will come. We broke up once because we were constantly fighting but reconciled. A friend once told me that if you break up once, there was a reason it happened and you should probably break up for good. Not sure how true that statement is but I believe it to some extent.
Introvert married to a introvert. It’s the in-person stuff that matters the most. The key to long-term is to keep engaged and paying attention to what he other person is interested in, and continuing to share your interests.